Our Christmas
The week before Christmas with shopping malls humming, reminded me soon that Christmas was coming.
You know how when your toddler starts talking you have to translate what they say to everyone else? The garbled half formed words make sense to you but not to someone hearing them for the first time. I thought I was well versed in toddlerese until Friday. Either that or my brain filter was not tuned to toddler mode. The boys and I were driving to the gym when Ollie kept saying "ie poo-boo."
Since the crash of the economy October 6th I have had to look at and seriously evaluate our situation. Since food and gas prices went up we were barely and sometimes not living within our means. I tried cutting everything I could think of to make a difference with no dice. Our ever growing boys made our ever growing budget daunting. So we have decided to take some drastic measures to get our family back in balance. Dextrose is no longer with us. Sad as it may be we found him an outstanding family of 2 people and 2 other dogs. They live on over an acre of land with squirrels and lizards galore. Personally I think he traded up, but that didn't make it any easier to drive him to a dog park and put him in the back of someone else's car when we were ready to leave. Jesse and I cried repeatedly that day and it broke our hearts when Frankie began looking for him the next morning. Jesse got a second job with REI for the Christmas season and I have decided to start my photography business. The photography biz is to explore my passion and hopefully make money while doing it. We have also decided to move. All of our sweat, blood and curses over our lawn and garden will be there for someone else to enjoy. Just when I figured out what grows where too. We are moving to Lakeside to a small town home. The only consolation will be the $500 a month savings in rent and utilities. In doing this we hope to eliminate our debt and save up for a house. I know everyone is struggling in one way or another and I'm not writing this because I want pity from anyone. I want everyone to know that it's ok to "back track" to get on track. We don't have to continually expand. Sometimes a stunt in growth or trimming the fat is an appropriate tactic for the health of your family. Everybody has a story but I think what I'm trying to say is if you ever feel tied down something is not right and needs to change. Figure out what it is and be brave enough to change it.
Read more...If any of you have not checked out Jessica's blog site with all her amazing recipes I urge you to do so... like right now. Stop reading and click on the link to your right and... whoa, slow down I need to tell you why. If your looking for ways for your family to eat right and have the food still taste good this is a site for you. She has maple pumpkin pie, chocolate cake, chocolate peanut butter ice cream, all the goodies that are amazingly guilt-free. There are other recipes for squash soup (yum), spinach salad, and so much more. I made her chocolate peanut butter ice cream today and one word... AMAZING!! The ingredients are simple and the final product is delicious. No one would know that your not using mounds of sugar, butter and fat. Check out her site and try one. She lives at a higher altitude so if you pick a baking recipe give your feed back too so she knows what works for sea level:)
My kids are brilliant when it comes to beating boredom. I caught a few of these examples on camera. Enjoy!
What a night!!! Frankie decided he wanted to be Ol' Mac Donald for halloween so I made a checkered shirt. Ollie was so cute in his chaps and vest with all the fringes. These were some of the easiest costumes I have made yet. Jesse and I got into the act as well. I was barbie, fake hair and all. Erin is a beautician and glued in extentions for me. The hair totally made the costume. Jesse was GI Joe. Come on everyone knows that's who Barbie really wants. We went to my mom's for dinner and some trick or treating. Frank got really into it once he understood the drill. 1. Look for lit houses 2. Knock on the door. 3. Say "trick or treat" Presto, candy in the bucket!!!! 4. say thank you. 5. Repeat steps one through 4!!!!!!!!
It was your typical monday with nothing special to do. Just house work and letting the kids be kids. Frank woke up from his nap, quietly closed the door so Ollie could continue sleeping and came down stairs. I was also enjoying an afternoon siesta when I heard. step..step..step.. "Mommy, mommy I had a good rest." Seeing that as my cue to get up I promptly rolled over and pried open one eye. "That's good, why don't you go play." With a cute smile he wanders off and starts to play while I wrench my tired self from that oh so comfortable mattress. I begin the never ending task of LAUNDRY and we continue on quietly for about 15 minutes or so. After a while Frank wants to go upstairs and play... by Ollie's room. I am hesitant but I extract a genuine vow of silence form my three year old (laughable, I know). As I'm putting yet another load into the dryer I hear Ollie upstairs through the vent but he doesn't make his way out of the room. I know he can't reach the door knob very well so I call up to Frank to let Ollie out. Silence... Ollie begins to whine. I call again, let Ollie out. " I can't, Ollie's stuck." What?! I race upstairs, thinking he's wedge between a bed and a wall or something. I reach the top, run for the door and turn the knob.... it's locked... from the inside. I run around trying to find the right size screwdriver to take off the door knob. Curses! Jesse actually put his tools away. I end up using an eye glasses repair kit and finally get the door knob off. "Did you lock the door?" I ask Frank as I try to release the bolt. "Yea." I wanted to say so many things to my older one like "never do that again" and "time out" etc. but I was more concerned with the pacing, tear stained blond boy I could see through the hole in the door. He stuck his fingers through the door trying to get to me and cried. Frank began to cry and try with all my might the useless tools I had could not get the bolt out of the jam!!! The wheels in my mind began to turn. What would Jesse do? He's a fire fighter.... fire fighter.... fire department. Why not have them get him out? We know almost every single fire crew member that works out of our fire station thanks to Jesse's career and Frank obsession with fire trucks. I called 911 and they sent out the engine. Captain Williams jumps down from the engine and the first thing he says is "So, is Jesse at work today?" Ha, ha. Boy do I feel like a nerd:) "My brother is stuck," Frank informs them all as they come inside. They walk in and within a minute Ollie is release from his room and sniffling in my arms AND the door is still intact. Hurray for Engine 18, you have saved the day. Ollie looked at all the guys, curious as to why the fire truck is at our house and not "sleeping" at the station like it usually is. As they walk back out Captain tells me to "call any time" and I retort "next time Jesse's not home, you bet." As we wave at the departing fire truck I realize this is the second time this year they've been called to my house for an emergency. I think we've reached our quota.
Read more...This weekend was Frankie's Birthday weekend. He turned three on Sunday. My little boy is three! I am a little weirded out by that. Anyway on Saturday we when up to North County to spend the day with Jesse's mom. We stopped at Buchaneer Beach first. What a beautiful day. The sun was warm, no marine layer, and a cool fall breeze blowing. The water was a bit chilly but the boys had fun playing in the sand and throwing sand clots at each other and Dad. I got to sit on the sand and watch:) We brought Frankie's dump truck and let him run it up and down the channel. Don't worry, we didn't let them play in the stagnant water, although they wanted to. Ollie discovered that sea water doesn't taste good and Frank figured out that if he runs fast enough he can kick mud up from his dump truck's tires and get doubly dirty. After hanging out at the beach we went to "wee-g's" and crashed. When we were all rested and fed a trip to the park around the corner sounded like fun. On Saturdays most parks in San Diego turn into fiesta central. There are bounce houses everywhere and mariachi music is blaring but we got lucky. There was only one party going on so the playground wasn't swamped with kids. Frank is becoming more adventurous, and as you can see from the pictures below he learned to climb to the top of the jungle gym. Ollie has always been a little monkey. He plays on the bigger equipment all the time. On Sunday we woke up and I told Frankie it was his birthday. "It's my birthday?!" He exclaimed, "Oh, thank you very much!" All day he kept telling everyone "It's my birdday!" We had a great family party at my mom's that night complete with cake and presents. Whenever Frankie would open a gift he would get a priceless look on his face, quiver with joy and say "thank you very much!!" I have never seen a child more grateful for his gifts. What a sweet little man he is turning out to be.
I have the cutest cowboys on the block. I know their garb may be modern but they sure do love their hats. I know that they are excited to wear the whole shebang for halloween.
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Frank loves to take our little point and shoot and click away. Most of the shots are blurry, too close and insignificant....but sometimes he captures something impressive. Take a look. Speaking of photos I did a photo essay. Click on my photography page link and go to my porfolio. Enjoy.
That seems to be the only thing that we do not have in our lives right now. It's nothing crucial but it does seem to be making for a bleak Christmas. I was at my mom's today talking about Christmas and here is what my humongous family is doing this year. We are drawing family names, not just person to person but family to family. Then, we are to use the talents of everyone in our family to create a gift for the people we drew. This is a really good idea and maybe it will help some of you out. I'm hoping to use some of my children's artistic abilities to create something truly unique. When we know what we are going to do I will post our ideas. We usually do home made gifts every year but this is even better because we can put time and thought into one big gift instead of spreading ourselves thin to come up with something original for everyone.
I have a gripe!!! Why is it that my almost three year old won't poo in the toilet?? He's been potty trained for months and he still would rather hide in a corner and poo in his underwear. I've tried timing him, punishing him, taking toys away but to no avail!!! I don't know what else to do. I've even started making him wash out his poopy underwear. I have come to the conclusion that I really hate poop. If anyone has any tips for stubborn little boys let me know!
Read more...I did it! I am taking the leap into the business world and trying to be a photographer "for real" :) Check out my blog and give me some feed back. Prices, blog look, whatever. I can use all the help I can get. The name of my business is "Capture the Moment Photography" my blog is CTMphotoSD.blogspot.com. Once I get things flowing I hope to build an official website.
Read more...We all have people we look up to and Frankie looks up to all of his uncles. When we do his hair for church he wants to look like Uncle Dave. He loves to swim with Uncle Stu. He thinks Uncle Robbie is hilarious. I could go on and on. I can't help but laugh at the way he tries to emulate one or the other. Today we were coloring using markers. Frank is relatively new to using markers and last night he was extremely concerned about the marker left on his skin after coloring. Well today he wasn't as worried about it. In fact, as he and Jesse were coloring Frank intentionally started drawing on his forearm. Jesse was about to tell him that we draw on paper when Frank turned to Jesse and said "Look! Just like Daniel!" My son gave himself a "tat" just so he could be like Uncle Dan:) That's hilarious.
Update: he thought that one tattoo was funny so more would be even better. Jesse found him downstairs, after his bath, with marker all over his legs, arms and the walls. "Just like Daniel" to the extreme. I guess he's more like Daniel than we thought:)
Life throws us curve balls so often you would think I would be a better batter by now. We signed on to Barona fire about 6 months ago and in stead of relieving our financial burdens it has increased them. Believe it or not, Jesse is making less than he did at AMR. The income is the same every 2 weeks and there is no overtime to speak of. Well, that means we get to be more creative and have a little more faith. I am taking a huge risk and starting up my photography biz. It has been a long time in coming but this need for green is giving me a push. Stay tuned for a website and other goodies. My angle or the thing that makes me marketable is that I am cheap. I can't build a business before I build a porfolio so if anyone needs family or wedding pictures let me know.
Read more...Meet the newest member of our family. Our first "child" Dextrose, received a brother of his own last week. Dextrose was a lonely soul and we felt he would do well with a companion. We looked, and looked, and looked but could not find the right dog... enter Willis. Yes the dog's name is Willis. He's a mix of who knows what. He looks like a German Sheperd with Bassett legs and Doberman markings. We met him on a sunny Saturday morning. I took the boys and the dog to Petco to check out some prospects. We came walking up to the front of the story and all the dogs in the cages start barking like mad. Dex was freaked out. We walked one dog around the store and much to my dismay the dog was just as unruly as my two kids around the fish tanks. I was perspiring with frustration by the time we came back to the cages. Cue barking dogs. While shouting at my kids to not stick their fingers in the cages, and shouting at the lady in charge that we didn't want dog #1 I saw Willis. Amongst all the hyper maniacs he was sitting quietly looking around with a "what's the big deal?" look on his face. We decided to give him a go. What a great little mutt. He is only a year old but I was able to train him to sit on command within a five minute walk around the store. The boys loved him and Dex liked him too. We decided he had to be ours. He took to our house as if he has lived here all his life. He wrestles with Frank, Ollie and Dex and can keep up with Dex when we play. Who knows why someone gave him up all I know is we're glad they did because now he's ours.
Read more...We are now a motorcycle family! As you can see the boys haven't taken to it as well as we would hope but they are getting use to the idea:) Their favorite thing to do is to hop on Daddy's motorcycle and "cruise". I have never been too fond of motorcycles. The crashes and ER stories that I have been exposed to as well as seeing some of the after math made me a little skitish when Jesse was thinking about it. I told him he could get a motorcycle when pigs fly. Wouldn't you know it, a pig landed in the branches of our sycamore the very next day! I don't know if I halucinated or not but what was real were the sky high gas prices and his commute in a gas guzzling truck. We did the math and it would cost us less to buy a bike, insure and put gas in it than it would to keep fillin' the tank on a truck. Jesse was all too eager to agree with my figures and I put him to work to finding a bike. He found a V-Star cruiser. He now loves to run errands and will find any excuse to go "down the hill" into town for me. As one can see from the picture there is room for two on the bike and that second seat is not wasted. This is our date night vehicle almost all of the time. There's nothing quite like cruising down a winding road on our way to do something else fun:)
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