Living in the moment
Sometimes, as a mother, I worry too much about maintaining my children instead of being with them. I make sure laundry is clean, dishes are done, chores are completed, homework is taken care of. I drive them here, shop for groceries. Drive them there, shop for groceries. Pick them up, drop them off, shop for groceries. Notice a pattern?
I decided awhile ago that I needed to be a little more in the moment with my kids so everyday I try to do something a little out of the ordinary, surprising, or just plain irresponsible.
Yesterday the boys and I listened and danced to Michael Jackson while setting the table. We may or may not have continued to dance during dinner.
It's the little things like that I know my kids will remember most. So, go ahead. Ignore the laundry and read your kids two or three books tonight at bed time. Don't forget to do the voices:)
I have the same problem and I'm working on it.